http://www.smartgirlsecrets.com I am a literary exhibitionist. This is where I share my secret desires with the world. Mon, 01 Mar 2010 03:33:56 +0000 http://backend.userland.com/rss092 en A few days ago, a friend and I started discussing our feelings about a hypothetical party that would be defined as "D/s Space." While the idea of a few hours set apart in time where people could feel free to express theirr submission and dominance under an umbrella of formal ... http://www.smartgirlsecrets.com/2010/02/protocol-and-public-spaces.html ***Warning: I wrote this post while wearing my ranty pants, and it is coming off somewhat more intolerant than I really intend*** Lately I seem to be surrounded by an epidemic* of heterosexual people who have decided they want to try being bisexual. In other words, although they are not particularly ... http://www.smartgirlsecrets.com/2010/02/bi-design.html I fantasize about being an object of mass desire. It is difficult, sometimes, to resolve this fantasy with my complete and utter obsession with safe sex, but I do what I can*. In fact, I have concocted an elaborate party favor scenario that is so hot to me that it has become ... http://www.smartgirlsecrets.com/2010/02/party-favor.html *... or why I love fucking my girlfriend. I am developing an understanding Of why men Love to fuck. The appeal of slipping inside someone Feeling them clasped warm and tight Around your cock Around your hand Is overwhelming. It can not be denied. It is extremely hot In the caverns of a woman Extremely hot to enter them as ... http://www.smartgirlsecrets.com/2010/02/ode-to-a-grecian-urn.html I am a big fan of cock sucking, preferably bio-cock, but I'm not picky. There's just something about the activity that makes me profoundly happy. I enjoy being able to focus intently on my partner's pleasure. Plus, cock sucking is a really excellent activity with which to explore power ... http://www.smartgirlsecrets.com/2010/02/unhinged.html "I am kinky. You are perverted. They are deviant." "Mmm... you can conjugate me any time... wait... does that make this a conjugate visit?" *thwack* http://www.smartgirlsecrets.com/2010/01/heard-in-a-bedroom.html Sometimes words are limits. They can sting like barbs or sit like lead weights upon the tongue - foul and heavy. They can stick to the weakened places in your soul and burn like acid or lodge in the back of your throat like bile. Words can hurt, and words can ... http://www.smartgirlsecrets.com/2010/01/edge-say.html I went to the party I talked about in my last post, and it was lovely and wonderful and fun and then it was a mess. The mess was not the party's fault. Not really. By and large it was a wonderful space filled with a group of people I ... http://www.smartgirlsecrets.com/2010/01/sub-space-as-self-hypnosis.html I tend to be extraordinarily leery of using BDSM as therapy. That having be said, however, there are times I find it to be extremely therapeutic. For various reasons, including a parade of weasels, I have been considering bailing on a play event at which I will see (among many other ... http://www.smartgirlsecrets.com/2010/01/weasel-patrol.html 1010) Tendency to nom the brains of people who are beating me. 1001) When told to count down from 10, do so in binary (from first principles, since I don't use binary all that often.) 1000) Excessive kibitzing. 111) Pestering for the things I want. 110) Inappropriate biting. 101) A habit of intentional misinterpretation ... http://www.smartgirlsecrets.com/2010/01/top-10-reasons-i-am-not-a-twoo-submissive-female.html