Comments on: Sub Space as Self Hypnosis http://www.smartgirlsecrets.com/2010/01/sub-space-as-self-hypnosis.html I am a literary exhibitionist. This is where I share my secret desires with the world. Fri, 10 Sep 2010 00:46:15 +0000 hourly 1 By: Rona http://www.smartgirlsecrets.com/2010/01/sub-space-as-self-hypnosis.html/comment-page-1#comment-3319 Rona Thu, 21 Jan 2010 03:51:19 +0000 http://www.smartgirlsecrets.com/?p=646#comment-3319 I haven't, so I will have to do some research. Thank you for the information! I haven’t, so I will have to do some research. Thank you for the information!

]]> By: blue http://www.smartgirlsecrets.com/2010/01/sub-space-as-self-hypnosis.html/comment-page-1#comment-3317 blue Thu, 21 Jan 2010 02:11:42 +0000 http://www.smartgirlsecrets.com/?p=646#comment-3317 <i>So much of what I enjoy is not just what we do, but the way I process it and think about it. It makes for odd, and useful, contradictions like the fact that thinking about him using me when I don’t want him to use me is such a turn on that I instantly want him to use me. I am excited by the very fact that he uses me because he wants to, which is of course why I have negotiated a relationship where someone can use me regardless of my interest at any given time. (I could, of course, always safeword out, but knowing that and believing it means I usually don’t want to or need to. Plus, he’s wonderfully considerate of my feelings, more so than he needs to be, which makes me believe that should he choose not to be because he really, really wants something of me, I would be even more inclined to give in than usual.) It makes me beg him to hurt me as much as he wants, to hurt me more than I like, because it makes me so hot to give more than I actively desire.</i> yes, this. Also, yum. Sorry the brain is so far out of whack, but I'm glad you're able to investigate neat things about how it works, even so... So much of what I enjoy is not just what we do, but the way I process it and think about it. It makes for odd, and useful, contradictions like the fact that thinking about him using me when I don’t want him to use me is such a turn on that I instantly want him to use me. I am excited by the very fact that he uses me because he wants to, which is of course why I have negotiated a relationship where someone can use me regardless of my interest at any given time. (I could, of course, always safeword out, but knowing that and believing it means I usually don’t want to or need to. Plus, he’s wonderfully considerate of my feelings, more so than he needs to be, which makes me believe that should he choose not to be because he really, really wants something of me, I would be even more inclined to give in than usual.) It makes me beg him to hurt me as much as he wants, to hurt me more than I like, because it makes me so hot to give more than I actively desire.

yes, this. Also, yum.
Sorry the brain is so far out of whack, but I’m glad you’re able to investigate neat things about how it works, even so…

]]> By: aimee http://www.smartgirlsecrets.com/2010/01/sub-space-as-self-hypnosis.html/comment-page-1#comment-3313 aimee Wed, 20 Jan 2010 18:56:56 +0000 http://www.smartgirlsecrets.com/?p=646#comment-3313 I've only just recently started to follow your blog, so pardon me if you've already mentioned such things, but have you ever looked into binaural beats? It's something my owner and I are looking into at the moment. Fascinating stuff. It could very well get one a step closer to self-regulating when those depressive times come around (and believe me, I have them too, so I can sympathize.) I’ve only just recently started to follow your blog, so pardon me if you’ve already mentioned such things, but have you ever looked into binaural beats? It’s something my owner and I are looking into at the moment. Fascinating stuff. It could very well get one a step closer to self-regulating when those depressive times come around (and believe me, I have them too, so I can sympathize.)

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